Don't Let Temporary Isolation Turn Into a Lifetime of Abuse

Temporary Isolation Leaves Perfect Opportunity for Abusive Partner

Abusive relationships can be difficult to recognize, especially when you're somewhat isolated from the outside world. In today's world, where social distancing has become the norm, the problem has only intensified. The temporary isolation caused by the pandemic has left the perfect opportunity for abusive partners to destroy your relationships and make you doubt everyone and everything around you, slowly.

It can be hard to identify the signs of abuse, especially when you're in the middle of it. Abusive partners often use emotional manipulation to control and isolate their victims, making it harder for them to reach out for help. They might say things like "you're stupid" or "you always make mistakes." They might make sure you're on your toes instead of in your own world. They might not allow you space and time for your children. They might be demeaning and make you doubt your children and family.

If you have children together, it can be even harder to leave an abusive partner. But you must remember that your children won't do as you say, they will do as you do. You must show them by being strong and leaving, even if they don't agree, that it's necessary for your safety and health. This will help them grow up to be in stable, safe, and harmonious relationships instead of abusive ones.

Watch Out for Signs of Abuse

The problem is even bigger if you're considered a strong, independent person that everyone looks up to. Over the years, you might get eaten alive, especially if you're with an abusive, insecure person who couldn't settle for anything in life and needs money as the rush fueling existence. If you have siblings you were close with, watch out for signs of not being close anymore. Watch out for signs of not being close to those you claim to care for anymore due to no fault of your own.

Abusive partners can make you doubt your own abilities and even your own children. They might make you doubt your children from other relationships. This is never okay. It can be hard to leave an abusive relationship, but it's important to remember that abuse isn't only about the extreme cases that everyone can see. It's also the abuse that you experience when no one hears and when no one but you can question it.

Scrutinize everything and every objective from the abuser is important. However, it's also important to consider how and when it's safe to do so, and what steps you can take to protect yourself and your loved ones.

Get Help and Support

If you're in an abusive relationship, you're not alone. There are resources available to help you get out of the situation and rebuild your life. You can reach out to organizations like the National Domestic Violence Hotline, which offers support and guidance to victims of domestic violence. You can also reach out to family, friends, or a therapist for support.

Don't let temporary isolation turn into a lifetime of abuse. It's important to recognize the signs of abuse and take action to protect yourself and your loved ones. You deserve to be in a safe, healthy, and loving relationship. Don't settle for anything less.